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Courtship Is For Change!

 ©Evangelist Kemi Longe I was at a marriage seminar at Iree in Osun state to minister this last weekend. And after the ministration, this question came in,  which we can also gain from: I am in a relationship already and I have prayed and I'm sure of God's leading.  But my partner who also was  convinced of divine leading,  just became uninterested after some time.  He has changed so much to me.  What can I do? A lot of things can cause discouragement in courtship. Courtship time is to discover who you are. You both come from different backgrounds and so brought up with different ideas. In courtship you must be prepared to change and shift ground on so many things.  It is a time to agree and disagree on so many things.  It is therefore a time to talk. If you are not pleased with something, then you have to discuss it.  Don't be so desperate to keep a relationship working when you are not pleased with some issues because yo...

COUNT THE COST

Written by HELGEE There's always a quality value placed on a quality goods. For you to have it, you have a pay a quality price. You want Good life, count the cost . You want Good Grade, count the cost. You want Good future, count the cost . You want Godly marriage, count the cost. You want Good health, count the cost. You want to be wealthy, count your cost. You want to make heaven, count the cost. There is always a price to pay to achieve  great things, until you are willing to pay the price you have not started the journey to greatness. As a student, you want to have good Grade, you must be willing to pay the price. You want to be a Good woman, you have to count the cost by learning good moral values. You want to have good health, there are certain things you have to do consistently, you have to keep eating regularly, avoid junks, eat fruits and vegetable, Make healthy food choice, and exercise regularly. You want a Good future,you have to be determined, hav...

Why I Love her 💜

Why I Love her 💜 The Reason(s) I Love her If you are in a relationship or venturing to go into one, have you ever asked yourself: *why do I love her?* or *why do I Love him?* It would be surprising that if we ask most people that same question, the answer they would give will be because of some special and specific reasons.... "I love him because he is this," "I love her because she is that," "she is so caring and energetic" "he is so understanding and passionate about what he does" "he makes me complete whenever I'm around him" "she's so caring and yummy yummy* Lol..... This goes on and on and on until they've said and exhausted all the good things about the person. *smiles. Some even go to the extent of describing how the person makes them feel, how elated and superb they feel around the person, and how romantic they get when they are with him or her. Sincerely, I'll say all these qualities...

Some Important things you should note

1. In everybody you like, there are things you don't like. 2. When you start suspecting people, be careful of them and be careful about yourself 3. If you want love, give love 4. Never fall in love with someone because of characteristics, fall in love with the attitude. Because, characteristics changes but attitude is very difficult to change. 5. You're not a Christian if you don't love and forgive, you're just a church goer and talkative (not praying). You can learn to Love. Walesofficial.blogspot.com 6. Never look down on anyone. Don't do it. 7. Stop praying if you have grudges with anyone. Expect you're praying for the grace to be free with the person. 8. God will never fail. His word are sure, know his words concerning you. 9. We will all die 10. Remember there's a place called heaven and earth. They are very much real. 11. If you're looking for a perfect person, ask yourself if you are perfect or head on to the graveyard. ...

Don't get emotional with God, get intentional with HIM

It's true that God understands us as well as our emotions. But the truth is that if God is to answer our prayers according to our Emotions, there would be disasters. According to English dictionary, emotion is defined as; "A person's internal state of being and involuntary physiological response to an object or a situation, based on or tied to physical state and sensory data." While, intention is describe as; "The goal or purpose behind a specific action or set of actions." Note the two definitions and their meaning. So, stop serving God because of only what you want from him, but serve him intentionally with a conscious heart. In conclusion, serving God, praying to God and all manner of reference to God, shouldn't be done with emotions alone but should be intentional from your heart.

Think positive for yourself

One of the secrets of winning in life is positive thinking. Having a positive mindset about yourself, makes you feel and live like a king. Walesofficial.blogspot.com Obviously, it isn't really a good thing to living in dreams of an unrealistic world. But I'll tell you, that it's a good thing to create a positive picture of yourself in your mind. Winning doesn't just start from your actions, it starts from your mind, it starts from how and what you think about yourself. Though sometimes, it may not look like it, but I assure you it makes you stronger and gives you hope about your future and your present condition. Remember, even the thoughts and plans God has for you is positive, so why are you now creating and allowing a negative thought in your  mind? Remember, as a man thinkest in his heart, so he is. From today, start thinking good about yourself, Start thinking good about all the circumstances surrounding you. It will bring you...

Your Emotions matters, but your intentions matters Most

Hmmmm..... Okay! Sometimes we just feel like we want something very urgent, the things are so important that it weighs us down. You become destabilize and feel depressed. You pray to God in all manner you could and sometimes you even cry. Your emotions become so down and you just feel someone should just hold you by your hands or God should just perform some sharp sharp miracles. We all feel like this sometimes. Infact, sometimes I cry to God, not because I want to cry to God like a baby for him to pity me, but I just cry to God to ease and feel free again. But do you know that before you even started crying 😢 and praying and pleading for that thing to come or happen, God is already aware of it. But one bitter truth you should know is that; *YOUR EMOTIONS MATTERS, BUT YOUR INTENTIONS MATTERS MOST*. God is not a magician who doesn't care about the reason you want something. The truth is that there are some things which he will never do for you because of ...