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HAPPY NEW YEAR

 it's a new year..  Something like a fresh start, be intentional about your life❗️

WHAT YOU DO IN HASTE

Be careful of what you do in haste! Be careful of what you rush to do, it may not be as effective as it should be. In other words, take time to have a plan of things you should do, Be patient, and believe that things would work out fine.  This applies to all spheres of life.  May we be celebrated in Jesus name.  Wishing us all a great week ahead!

WHY NOT TAKE ME ALONG!

"God! when you give me this, I will serve you", "God! if you do this for me, I will love you more"........ We keep saying this and that, when we are in need and when help is needed from God. Obviously, I'm not excluded from this, and I pray I'm changed for good. God is not a man, His ways are not our ways and his thoughts are unimaginable. I don't know how God sees it, but looking at it from a human perspective, it's really a sad thing if the only time you remember me, is when you're not happy and when you're in trouble. But when everything seems alright, you forget me in few days, just because you are busy and you have more Important things to do. Just imagine this: If the only time I give you a call is when I need money from you, how would you feel? If the only time I greet you, is when I need your help, would you continuously reply me? If when I'm happy I don't remember you, and the only time I say I love you, is w...

What is immorality

What is immorality ? A state of being inconsistent A state of being without conscience Examples of immoral acts are: Rape Murder Slander Stealing Envy Lying and so on You will agree with me that all of these evil acts listed above and many more are rampant amongst the youths in our societies and nation at large. Immoral acts have become very common among the so called leaders of tomorrow .... Immorality has taken over our nation. What then is our fate? since we are getting worse as time goes by.... Not only our so called leaders are corrupted,even our youths are rotten. Yes, Youths are the hope of a better tomorrow agreed. Though not all the youths have ill morals..... An immoral man is a sick man. Such man can be sick physically, spiritually or psychologically..... Immorality could arise from the following : Poor parental care Peer group influence Everybody is doing it Spiritual problem Psychological problem and so on. Is there any solu...

CALL SOMEONE TOO

It's actually sad that we tend to say a lot of things about people when they are dead than when they are alive. "If she don't call me, I won't call her", "If he doesn't show interest in my business, why should I be concerned about him?" "If she feel she's too big to call, me sef ehn, I'll let her know I'm doing well without her"....... I wonder how people want love and they're not ready to give love, I wonder how many people want connections in life, but they feel like, what does he/she have to offer in my life?, It's so so funny that people want what they aren't ready to give. See ehn, even Jesus Christ my savior and my lord, gave himself so that he can have me. What else do I want from him, in what manner can he show me that he loves me? Or can you die for me? ("Lol., if you die for me, it cannot save me, so don't bother thinking about it".) But seriously, it's bad when you feel ...

Do you have a plan B?

Do you have a plan B? There is one essential thing that we are supposed to be doing now. Now is the time to ask yourself those rigorous and brainstorming questions and now is the time to tell yourself the truth. Have you ever sat down and ask yourself, what will I do after school? Or what will I get involved in after this phase of life is over? Do I want to be searching for Job, or do I have my own establishment? Will I sit down doing nothing and be idle after school or be busy and be progressive about my life? Do I want to still continually rely fully on my parents for everything when I graduate or not? Now that you're in your twenties, it's time to brush up your thinking and have a plan B for your life. Think deeply about what you want for yourself so that you won't regret later. Be calm, take a deep breath and ask yourself these questions and don't forget to tell yourself the truth. Your future depends on the priority you give it, stop living your l...

What he always do

He roars like a lion, to make you run out of your covering. He lures you out with what you want and what you like, and gets you deep into sin. Then with sin, you become guilty. But the devil doesn't stop there. Since you are guilty, he reminds you that you are a sinner and indirectly cage you in its accusations. He goes further by telling you that God doesn't like a sinner, and the prayer of a sinner is an abomination unto God thereby increasing the level of guilt in your heart. Then, you feel so worthless. You start insulting yourself and you feel ashamed of yourself. You are so sorry for what you've done and the sins you've committed, but you don't know how to ask God to forgive you. Your soul seeks God, but your heart is full of pain, regrets, shame and disgust. And you say within yourself "if God can only forgive me one more time". But, before you even think of those words, God was stretching his hand towards you, HE knew you might fall...

Courtship Is For Change!

 ©Evangelist Kemi Longe I was at a marriage seminar at Iree in Osun state to minister this last weekend. And after the ministration, this question came in,  which we can also gain from: I am in a relationship already and I have prayed and I'm sure of God's leading.  But my partner who also was  convinced of divine leading,  just became uninterested after some time.  He has changed so much to me.  What can I do? A lot of things can cause discouragement in courtship. Courtship time is to discover who you are. You both come from different backgrounds and so brought up with different ideas. In courtship you must be prepared to change and shift ground on so many things.  It is a time to agree and disagree on so many things.  It is therefore a time to talk. If you are not pleased with something, then you have to discuss it.  Don't be so desperate to keep a relationship working when you are not pleased with some issues because yo...

COUNT THE COST

Written by HELGEE There's always a quality value placed on a quality goods. For you to have it, you have a pay a quality price. You want Good life, count the cost . You want Good Grade, count the cost. You want Good future, count the cost . You want Godly marriage, count the cost. You want Good health, count the cost. You want to be wealthy, count your cost. You want to make heaven, count the cost. There is always a price to pay to achieve  great things, until you are willing to pay the price you have not started the journey to greatness. As a student, you want to have good Grade, you must be willing to pay the price. You want to be a Good woman, you have to count the cost by learning good moral values. You want to have good health, there are certain things you have to do consistently, you have to keep eating regularly, avoid junks, eat fruits and vegetable, Make healthy food choice, and exercise regularly. You want a Good future,you have to be determined, hav...

Why I Love her 💜

Why I Love her 💜 The Reason(s) I Love her If you are in a relationship or venturing to go into one, have you ever asked yourself: *why do I love her?* or *why do I Love him?* It would be surprising that if we ask most people that same question, the answer they would give will be because of some special and specific reasons.... "I love him because he is this," "I love her because she is that," "she is so caring and energetic" "he is so understanding and passionate about what he does" "he makes me complete whenever I'm around him" "she's so caring and yummy yummy* Lol..... This goes on and on and on until they've said and exhausted all the good things about the person. *smiles. Some even go to the extent of describing how the person makes them feel, how elated and superb they feel around the person, and how romantic they get when they are with him or her. Sincerely, I'll say all these qualities...

Some Important things you should note

1. In everybody you like, there are things you don't like. 2. When you start suspecting people, be careful of them and be careful about yourself 3. If you want love, give love 4. Never fall in love with someone because of characteristics, fall in love with the attitude. Because, characteristics changes but attitude is very difficult to change. 5. You're not a Christian if you don't love and forgive, you're just a church goer and talkative (not praying). You can learn to Love. Walesofficial.blogspot.com 6. Never look down on anyone. Don't do it. 7. Stop praying if you have grudges with anyone. Expect you're praying for the grace to be free with the person. 8. God will never fail. His word are sure, know his words concerning you. 9. We will all die 10. Remember there's a place called heaven and earth. They are very much real. 11. If you're looking for a perfect person, ask yourself if you are perfect or head on to the graveyard. ...

Think positive for yourself

One of the secrets of winning in life is positive thinking. Having a positive mindset about yourself, makes you feel and live like a king. Walesofficial.blogspot.com Obviously, it isn't really a good thing to living in dreams of an unrealistic world. But I'll tell you, that it's a good thing to create a positive picture of yourself in your mind. Winning doesn't just start from your actions, it starts from your mind, it starts from how and what you think about yourself. Though sometimes, it may not look like it, but I assure you it makes you stronger and gives you hope about your future and your present condition. Remember, even the thoughts and plans God has for you is positive, so why are you now creating and allowing a negative thought in your  mind? Remember, as a man thinkest in his heart, so he is. From today, start thinking good about yourself, Start thinking good about all the circumstances surrounding you. It will bring you...

Your Emotions matters, but your intentions matters Most

Hmmmm..... Okay! Sometimes we just feel like we want something very urgent, the things are so important that it weighs us down. You become destabilize and feel depressed. You pray to God in all manner you could and sometimes you even cry. Your emotions become so down and you just feel someone should just hold you by your hands or God should just perform some sharp sharp miracles. We all feel like this sometimes. Infact, sometimes I cry to God, not because I want to cry to God like a baby for him to pity me, but I just cry to God to ease and feel free again. But do you know that before you even started crying 😢 and praying and pleading for that thing to come or happen, God is already aware of it. But one bitter truth you should know is that; *YOUR EMOTIONS MATTERS, BUT YOUR INTENTIONS MATTERS MOST*. God is not a magician who doesn't care about the reason you want something. The truth is that there are some things which he will never do for you because of ...

You Have A Better Tomorrow

Today might not look like it Today might not look like what you wanted and desired, But, I'll tell you to hold on! Cos the thoughts he has towards you, is the thought of peace, and not of evil to give you an Expected end. It may look impossible at this moment that you will ever make it, You may feel that you're alone, You may even feel that God does not recognize you. But I tell you that God is very much aware when a leaf falls from its branch, so how much more you. Walesofficial.blogspot.com How much more you he created in His own image and likeness, How much you he sent his son to die for, How much more you he gave the commandment to arise and shine. So, you're not abandoned. There's someone that sticks closer than your family and friends. He loves you even more than you love yourself. God has the best plan for you, he hasn't forgotten you. He's too faithful to fail you. Just keep on working, and don't stop praying, cos ...

Why do like carrying the cross?

Do you know what it means for him to wear the crown? The crown of thorns, it pierced his flesh, went through his skin and touched his skull. Blood rushed out like a sweat from his head, down to his face and rolled down to his cheek, dropped on the floor and touched his body all because of you. It was all because of you he did that!!! He carried the cross so you won't carry it. He paid the price, that you could never pay. He redeemed the cost of sin holding you down. So, stop carrying the cross. But instead, lay it down at his feet and let him step on that issue. He already carried the cross, just because of you and all because of you. Let him handle it!!! Walesofficial.blogspot.com Peace ✌️✌️✌️

The game of Checkers

Read and Think Checkers is a game usually played by two persons to check the intelligence and test the wisdom of both parties involved. On the mobile phone or devices today, it can be played with the computer instead of another person. Playing with someone actually gives you the confidence that you can win than playing with the computer. This is so because the computer has been developed to think faster and it is able know the next move to make from the move you make. But in all these, there's a lesson learnt. Like earlier stated, the game is a game of wisdom and intelligence. So for you to be a winner, *you have to think ahead of your next move, you have to think for your opponent and against your opponent.*  So intriguing. Walesofficial.blogspot.com As interesting as a game, checkers can be related to life. "Your opponent gives you what you want to get or take what you have and lures you out of the place of safety, with an attraction for your ...

Free Yourself

Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, people who love and respect you, people who make your day a little brighter everyday simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you and make you feel less of yourself. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be *YOU* ; and being you is the only way to truly live and be better. ✌✌ ❣ *DLD* ❣

BE REAL

You wanna be seen Making haste and creating a scene The truth is, for everything you do, you need medicine To cure and heal your sin And purify everything that do not need to be seen Everything seems to be going along with the vibe But meanwhile, you're not even in their tribe Doesn't it makes you feel like a bibe? But it doesn't matter, you're always confy with a bribe The truth is always far from yourself You wallow and lie to yourself You've kept the truth, like a book in the shelf Can't recall when the truth was said to yourself Isn't it stressful that what you do is pretend With those you call your friend But don't forget, there's an end To the spelling of friend So, be real Be real to yourself Retrive the truth from the shelf The pretence should be beleft And you're always gonna be felt. Aside from God, the person you cannot lie to is yourself!!! Always tell yourself the truth, it'll make you a better per...

X-plore ❣️

They want to explore. Explore the possibilities of their imaginations. They yearn for freedom in the their hearts and crave for it with passion. The possibilities of their desires coming through is in their hands they say, so they never stop wanting and doesn't get wearied, they explored. She is selected to be used. It comes like a bomb "Boom.... " It was so sudden, she never expected it.. It becomes darker and she could not comprehend what was happening.. And then.... It dawned on her! ! "her reality has finally come" She can now see her real self alone in the mirror.. Her father is not there, neither is her mother or anyone else, It was just her standing alone and facing the dilemma of reality... She has explored, she crossed her boundaries, she has enjoyed the fantasies and splendor of yesterday, and now she's in today.... She looks for the trees she has planted. Sure, it was there, but the fruits were bitter... She tried cutting down...

What do you want??

It's appalling that most people do not know what they want. They are confused and settle for whatever seems right. As we progress in life, there are decisions to make and options to choose from. Your choice would determine the decision you make and the decision would lead you in choosing the right option. Settling for anything or everything brings about confusion and frustration. Until you sit back and think to decide what you want, you won't be satisfied. Truly, it's a great task, but we must decide early what we want to avoid regrets and bitterness in the nearest future. Deciding what you want would give you a vision and direction to the fulfillment of what you've chosen in life. Think deep on this and take on about it. Your life is in your hands. In the nearest future, whether you like it or not, you won't be in the same position as you are today, but the decision you've made and the action you've taken would determine how happy or sad you...